"A handful of conversations make the biggest difference in the strength and duration of a relationship," says Grenny."Talking about sexual intimacy tops that small list." Read on for eight issues to broach and how to approach them so you can move on to more interesting things.1. Unless you want to end up in a "50 Shades of OMG what are you doing? "While it's possible to have a good experience trying something new with no communication, it's also possible to have a someone pulls out handcuffs.And if both of you can talk horny without killing the mood, it would be the sexiest thing you could do with each other from a distance. Almost all couples have indulged in phone sex in some manner, more so at the start of a sexual relationship.
"You could say, 'If I'm feeling pressured it works against me, but know that I'm OK. If not, drop the issue knowing you've at least mentioned it in a sensitive, supportive manner.4. "It doesn't matter how many sex partners each of you has had," points out Dr. "HPV and other bugs hitch a ride on human genitals, just as the common cold goes for your nose and throat." It's best to talk about this matter-of-factly before you have sex for the first time. "Many women prefer to assume exclusivity because they're afraid the guy won't agree to it." In that case, you should know and make an informed decision about whether to have sex. "You should both feel comfortable, perhaps in one of your homes or in a dimly lit lounge," says Puhn. It's better to talk about not wanting sex, but how do you say "no" without it sounding like "never"?Try: "This is what I do for birth control" and "These are my standards for safe sex." "It's your body, and some conditions are forever—including unplanned offspring," adds Dr. "Just don't talk about it when either of you has had more than one drink."6. "Touch your mate, smile and suggest another time," says Puhn.Even if your guy spouts off dirty words with ease (and even if you feel totally awkward), you may have a leg up.When it comes to sounding sultry, women can easily sex-up the sound of their voice, while men simply cannot, according to a new Albright College study.in whatever way he wants..whatever position he needs....hehehe lol....
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“Because they don’t know what to say, they get tripped up.”But when you do know what to say? That’s why we've gathered a few basic guidelines to help you tap into your inner dirty girl.
Prepare to arouse him like never before—with your mouth.
If you’re uncomfortable with the thought of having phone sex with your lover because the whole idea seems awkward, start by texting naughty.
And just when things start to heat up, call your lover up and continue the conversation over the phone.
It goes without saying that you'd like to enjoy making love to your partner; yet, nearly every other aspect of sex calls for a chat.